Generations

Generations to the Rescue

Grandparents to the rescue.   Grandparents are the “strategic reserve” in extended families.  When times are normal, grandparents are careful not to interfere in the lives of their children and grandchildren.  But in times of major family stress, grandparents change their role, put on their “uniforms” and actively provide help and assistance. 1

Great Grandma Pricilla was a rescue worker for my dad.  She was a gentle loving place where he could go and have one on one attention.  Each day he would go to her home after school and be taught the piano.  Grandma was a gifted pianist and shared her talent with my dad when he was just a young boy.  Family life at this time was very stressful for him and he looked forward to having her loving hugs and teaching at the piano. 

Grandma’s talent was passed on.  I have watched my dad share his talent and find joy in his talent.  He continues to develop his skill by performing and practicing classical music.  I love to hear him share his memories of how loved he was by her.

Grandparents are the rescuing force that we can sometimes need.  They have an ability to love like no other can. I know their love continues on the other side of the veil; and I still draw upon the guidance and advice I received from my grandparents. I am incredibly grateful for the influence my grandparents have had on me; and the influence my parents have had on my children. 

1  Hawkins, J.H., Dollahite, D.C., Draper, T.H., Successful Marriages and Families: Proclamation Principles and Research Perspective